I was going to email about some facebook drama that happened last week. But when I re-read the email, it was too negative for my taste. And no one wants negativity in their inbox. (Sorry if you were expecting that email! I'm sure you'll love this one, too ;) )
On the note of negativity, life isn’t all perfect. We sometimes have to say no or give negative feedback.
But did you know there’s actually a formula for giving negative feedback that is super applicable to the classroom?
The 80/20 rule.
For every 1 “No” or “negative feedback” - have four positive interactions - to balance it out.
I once gave this tip to a group of teachers on one of my online workshops. The next day, a teacher sent me a picture of an index card with x’s and checks that she had written throughout the class, taking note of how many times she had said “yes” or had a positive interaction and the opposite. Shoutout to this teacher! A true Ever Growing Educator! ​
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​Keeping the 80/20 rule in mind, here are some quick ways to say “YES” or give “positive feedback” in the classroom, that take NO prep time:
Which one will you try?
What would you add to the list?
Hit reply and let me know!
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Mushkie
@EverGrowingEducator
If you love teaching, learning new things and bringing creativity and engagement into your classroom, then you're an ever growing educator, too. HI! 👋🏻
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